L was at grandmas for dinner, so Matt and I got Indian take out and headed to Target to get some last minute additions for L’s V-Day basket. While perusing Target some pretty good contractions hit. They were much more painful when I laughed, so of course Matt was cracking me up all throughout Target, and Sprouts; we probably looked like crazy people. By the time we got home, they tapered off so I did some cleaning and headed to bed. Contractions rolled in through the evening, but I mostly slept through them, they continued with consistency through the morning. So at around 6:30am I started to time them, while the rest of the house slept. At around 8am, I texted Lindsey to tell her that we might be having a Valentines Day Baby! They had just finished up at a birth, and would head over after they had some breakfast.
We finally all got up and started our day, some other signs of labor started to kick in, but the contractions themselves began to spread out. We started to prep for the birth, blowing up the tub, calling my doula and good friend Michelle, and making plans for the little one to be entertained. By the early afternoon the midwife and her assistant had arrived and Michelle was keeping L entertained. My Dad even stopped by for a random visit. We had lunch while the midwife and her assistant took a walk downtown and took a rest.
The afternoon continued with inconsistent contractions, in effort to get things moving we took lots of walks (It was a beautiful summerlike day), tried different positions, played with the rebozo, did inversions, did pelvic tilts that hurt like hell, took some nasty homeopathic remedies and anything else I could think of. Around 5pm, the midwife and her assistant went home to rest, leaving all the supplies behind for the impending birth while L was at the movies with grandpa. When it comes to birth, we say that the more people that are around the longer the birth will be (or some say a watched pot never boils), now Matt and I were alone in a quiet house.
I was tired, I decided to take a warm shower and rest. But of course, while in the shower some pretty intense pressure waves begin to hit. I made it quick and headed straight for bed, trying to rest up as best as possible between the contractions. In what seemed like just a few minutes, they were what I would call very intense. I was making deep throaty sounds to cope and keep my body relaxed. At a certain point it was uncomfortable to lay down, it was uncomfortable to sit down, it was just uncomfortable. I started to cry, “I cannot do this”. As I said the words, I knew deep down that I would be pushing this baby out sooner rather than later. That is what is said when it starts to get challenging (usually around transition) and usually by this point it is already almost over. I told Matt to call Michelle.
There was a huge fear, that I was not capable of birthing my baby this way, how could I manage to handle these intense pressure waves for hours? I tried to breathe through my doubt, keeping my body as relaxed as possible.
Matt and Michelle filled up the tub, by the time I got in, the contractions were intense and the pressure was building and I didn’t really want to move. All I could focus on was not holding my breath and keeping my body as relaxed as possible.
I continued to try my best to breathe through the doubt I had about being able to birth my baby my way, the fear of being in labor for hours and hours and having to be transferred because I couldn’t hang.
Shortly after I was submerged in the warmth of the tub, Lindsey came in the door, checked on baby E and gave me an IV (antibiotics for my GBS). The IV had barley finished, when the contraction hit that started involuntarily pushing my baby down. I looked straight at Lindsey, moaning through the wave that told her I was pushing, and that this sensation was f-ing intense. With a gush my water broke, 10:18pm. “Where is my husband?” I yelled. Matt had ran outside to console Elle as she begrudgingly was getting ready to head to Grandpas house. Michelle ran and got him and told him that Elle needed to stay because it was just about time! (I irrationally thought I would be pushing for hours and hours and even initially refused to reach down and feel that my baby was so close).
With each wave, my baby made her way closer, the uncontrollable urge to push washed over me. I was terrified, I had to relinquish the doubt as well as any control I thought I had. Eventually I got brave enough to reach down and feel her. She was right there! I can do this, I was doing it. I noted that she had a lot of hair (unlike our other daughter), I took a few more deep breaths to breathe her down and out. As her head emerged, I was able to pull her to my chest. What a feeling, we did it! We really did it! My oldest came in just in time to see her sister transition into this world at 10:38pm. She was ecstatic. She literally beamed with light and love as she checked out the newest addition to our family.
I smiled and sighed in relief. I overcame my doubt; doubt that was lingering from my first birth experience, a type of doubt and fear that I did not realize existed until I was actually in the throes of birthing. This birth helped heal, and it also made me realize how strong I am. How strong we as women are. I gathered a wonderful birth team who supported me through this process and in the end I am forever changed by this experience. Birth, no matter what it looks like, is life changing. Motherhood, no matter if you are already a mother or not, is life changing. These are things we often do not understand until we have lived them, and words cannot do them justice. I embrace both of my births, and they make me better. I am beyond excited to have these experiences to share in my teachings. We are amazing mamas!
Name: Thea Pueschel
Nickname: Miss Thea
Adopted Hometown: Los Angeles
Favorite Place: Southern Spain (Seville, Cardoba, Granada)
Favorite Color: Green
What’s your sign? Crab wood rabbit - Cancer
Most embarrassing moment: There are so many to choose from. When I was in my twenties I worked in a casino I was moving a food tray when my foot hit an above ground outlet I went flying, the food tray went flying. A bowl of soup flew off the tray and hit a customer in the leg. Fortunately, the soup was not hot, no one was injured. That is except for my ego. My boss at the time said to me that "working with you is like watching an old Buster Keaton film, you know something was going to be flying or falling but never know what. And always good for a laugh."
Most empowering moment: When I decided to take the leap into full time private practice as a hypnotherapist and yoga instructor. I had plotted and planned for 5 years to do so. I won my freedom 2 years ago this September. I saved and I built for those 5 years. Taking a leap toward your dream required much planning but it is worth it.
Fun fact about you: I've been a vegetarian since I was 7 years old. The only one in my family. I joke that my calling to teaching was a result of already being a vegetarian so it seemed like a good match and I already had a leg up. (I do not think you need to be a vegi head to practice yoga)
How do you define yoga? This is a very involved question. Because Yoga is so many things. If you ask me how I define asana, I would say it is the shape we put the body into. The word Yoga however to me translates into embodiment, union, bliss and actualization. I think that creating a definition of yoga is an extremely personal experience and outside of the general definition of yoke or union I think the definition can be many things for many people and all can be correct.
Why do you teach? A quick answer is that it is fun to share my love of yoga with others. The long answer is yoga is a powerful tool for transformation that can empower people as well as aid them on their healing journey. I think the greatest aspect of my work is when I get to see someone take the practice and make it their own or how their practice gives them power and the ability to stand up for themselves or take powerful leaps of faith within their lives because they are grounded.
What is your most memorable yoga moment? The first time I went back into camel I felt that my heart exploded with joy and bliss. Professionally, when I was at YogaJournalLIVE! in San Francisco in January and my teacher told me at the beginning of the first workshop (filled with primarily yoga teachers) that I was going to teach something, I wouldn't know what or when. Then I had to raise to the challenge. I know I am a operate within my comfort zone type of person, so every once in a while I need a nudge. I am so glad I did.
Thea teaches our Wednesday 5:30pm Core Flow Vinyasa and Saturday 10:30am Yoga Blend. She also teaches a variety of awesome workshops that are accessible to everyone and can help grow your practice tremendously!
Name: Isabelle Laski
Nick Name: Izzy or Iz
Hometown: Chino Hills, CA
Favorite Place: At home with my hubby and my dog. Outside of home: It's a tie between San Diego, Boston, MA and Portland, OR
Favorite Color: Purple
What’s your sign? Capricorn
Most embarrassing moment? Accidentally sending a mass e-mail at work: it was an inside joke to a co-worker
Most empowering moment? When I first drove over 300 miles by myself.
Fun fact about you. I am a Star Wars Geek (and Game of Thrones and Walking Dead).
What is your favorite pastime (other than yoga)? Photography (for fun)
How do you define yoga? Yoga is a journey of going deeper than the surface; connecting your body, your mind and your soul.
Why do you teach? I teach because yoga has (and still is) doing wonders for me--it has helped me cope with stress, it has helped me learn about myself and my body and also, to accept things I cannot control; I know that there are so many people like me who are going through this. Yoga is a fantastic journey and amazing world that I hope more people can get into and incorporate it in their lives.
What is your favorite song to play in class? "Destiny" by Zero 7
What is your most memorable yoga moment? The first time I was able to do a headstand during my teacher training. I remember laughing from sheer joy and shock; everyone was cheering for me (the upside down view of everyone supporting me was pretty cool, too!)
Who needs to take a class when we have the Internet? When we have read a few books? Maybe you are planning on getting an epidural or you trust your doctor to tell you what to do.
As a mom, a mom who became a birth professional because of my personal (less than ideal) birth experience, I am extremely passionate about educating women about childbirth. I have taken hours and hours of classes on pregnancy and childbirth; I am constantly reading and studying up on the most current issues and studies.
I think it is extremely important for mothers and couples to prepare for birth, to learn their options, to learn about the medications available to them, to learn about the procedures that their baby may endure during the labor process. As a parent, it is the first step to making informed decisions, decisions that not only effect mom but can also affect the baby. Here are my top 6 reasons to take a childbirth class.
The information you get from the educator is current and credible.
A good childbirth educator, is experienced, update to date and well versed on current studies. She can provide evidence-based information for you to go back to. So you can do your own research and decide what feels right for you.
You can ask questions that apply to your specific goals or situations.
Sure you can go to Google for this, but isn’t it easier getting an answer straight from a professional? Your instructor can usually also answer questions about your specific hospital or planned location for birth. And she can give you local resources.
Gets you and your birth coach on the same page.
We talk about a lot of things in childbirth classes that neither mom nor the birth coach may have known about, this creates a dialogue between you as you begin to plan your birth. This will provide your birth coach will tools and insight of how to best support you and your goals.
You get hands on practice.
We practice comfort measures and relaxation techniques. What is back a labor, and how can I help? Oh, I remember this from our class, counter pressure, lets try a double hip squeeze! Nothing beats hands on practice.
We learn about procedures, medications and other interventions.
Learn what else comes with the epidural (catheter, heart rate monitor, fetal monitoring, possibly pitocin…). That there is a 15% chance that your epidural will not numb you all the way. What is an internal fetal monitor and why would I need it? What if I need a c-section, what should I expect? Knowledge is power; it helps eliminate the fear of the unknown that childbirth tends to hold against us.
Your get to be around other pregnant women who are going through the same thing.
It is comforting to know you are not alone. Childbirth classes are great places to meet other moms who are going to have babies around the same age are yours.
Unfold Yoga offers a variety of childbirth education classes. From 1-Day Intensives to 4-Week Classes to 12-Week Bradley Method Classes. Check our workshop schedule for the current dates. Don't have time to make to a class? All childbirth classes are also available on a one-on-one basis, around your schedule and at your home. Contact us for details.
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